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An autobiographical obituary by the late Mike Hughes

After many unexplained delays, I have finally lived up to my prognosis and have at last departed this life. It’s been a life I’ve loved. In the months leading up to this moment, I was astonished at the...

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Ring dem bells.

Ginny’s getting nothing but good reports from her docs.  She’s right on schedule for her chemo test program and her tumors continue to shrink.  (As expected, if everything stays on schedule, she’ll...

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The obit desk.

When I was a young reporter for the Richmond News Leader, I often worked the obituary desk.  That was different than reporting on the death of, say, a celebrity or a government official.  Reporters...

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Ella Kelley

Ella Kelley died this week.  It breaks a piece off of my heart. She was supposed to outlive me. She was younger than me and her disease came after mine.   I teased her about having a “wimpy” ailment,...

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The heart of an industry.

Patti and I had lunch with Jeff Goodby two weeks ago. I’ve been amazed and touched by the reaction of the advertising community to my upcoming demise.  I feel like an old mafia don to whom respects are...

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Modern love and me.

As if it were needed, here is more evidence that I possess a strong inner female.  I am addicted to the Modern Love column that runs every week in The New York Times.  It’s a first person true story...

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An update.

            It’s Thanksgiving weekend and I’m once again repeating myself:  No one has more to be thankful for than I do.  I have a fabulous family, a wonderful job and a life that’s filled with life....

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Prayers, sacred and otherwise.

Hal Tench just sent me the best email I’ve received this year.  This is it in its entirety: Are you dead yet? Not everyone can get to the heart of a question the way Hal can.  (It was tempting to  let...

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Handwriting.

I have an incredibly bad handwriting.  It’s something everyone can agree on.  Nobody ever says, no, no, Mike, you’re being too hard on yourself; you have an OK handwriting.  Nobody’s ever said that....

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My mother’s death

For the past 15 years we’ve assumed that I would die before my mother.  Nobody hated that idea more than mom.  As Ginny and I have said many times since the death of our son Preston twelve  years ago,...

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Ann Lucas Hughes, 1923-2013

Here’s what everybody who knew my mom knows about my mom. Everyone knows she was funny.  Not just nice-sense-of-humor funny, but laugh out loud, on purpose funny.  Lucille Ball funny.  Lucille Ball had...

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Mom.

My mother died this morning.  She’d been in a coma since Tuesday, when she apparently suffered a stroke and a heart attack.  Here’s the obituary that will appear in tomorrow’s Richmond paper: Ann Lucas...

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Is it possible that the world’s getting better?

It’s hard not to focus on the train wreck/sinkhole/inferno (choose your metaphor) that is Washington, D.C., these days.  Even when we point out to each other that there used to be fistfights under the...

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I told you he could write.

And I told you he was funny.  Here’s how John Adams introduced me at a One Club event. The Truth About Mike Hughes Mike Hughes is not what he seems. To the world, he is a rare and talented writer and...

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Ginny.

We continue to be optimistic about her treatment.  In fact, the company that developed the trial program she’s on is going to use her as their “successful” case study at an upcoming conference. Still…...

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Writing.

A number of you have commented on my writing.  If you’re interested in my thoughts about my writing–and who wouldn’t be?–you might be interested in the new posting on my other, not-about-death blog....

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WHEN DYING GETS IRRITATING.

By almost any measure, last week was great.  Four days in Beacon with Carley, Jason and ELLA!  Three days in Manhattan, just Ginny and me, a couple of movies and (for me) a great lunch with Jon Kamen,...

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The nasty and the nice.

A number of people have commented on the fact that the comments on my blogs have been so universally positive.  They wonder if I’ve blocked out the nasty ones—the ones typically posted anonymously.  I...

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Why two blogs?

I started unfinishedthinking.com to keep family, friends and coworkers up to date on my health issues and how I’m dealing with them. I got a few requests to post my thoughts on other topics.  I could...

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I’m fine.

When I go too long without posting anything here people start to worry.  I’m fine.  I’ve started a couple of pieces for this space, but I’m having trouble finishing them.  Larry lectured me the other...

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